Be Honest with YOU!

Good Morning BlogFam!

It is extremely important to be honest with yourself, even at times when you may not want to.  So many people get upset when people are dishonest with them but they don’t even have the ability to be honest with themselves.  Trust, honesty, and respect are reciprocal actions that start with you and eventually create a domino effect.  If you are able to give it to yourself, you will give it to others, and others will give it to you.  Just as I stated yesterday, telling lies takes creativity and a certain level of cynicism, which means when you are dishonest with yourself you are creating an imaginary perception of the truth. 

When you alter reality you are choosing to chase false dreams.  Some things just won’t be and it’s okay to accept that because while there are things that won’t be, there are so many other things that will be and ARE!  Having the ability to be completely honest with yourself takes integrity, a high level of respect, and regard for YOUR reality.  In my opinion, when you choose to be ignorant to the facts you are blinding yourself.  Each and every one of us who has our sight and can hear should embrace it as a gift.  Just think of the people who are blind or deaf by nature; they don’t have the ability to see things for what they are but somehow they still have the ability to embrace THEIR reality.   Therefore, my point is, what you see is what it is so don’t try to paint a new picture on the same canvas by trying to cover up what you know is real.

If you feel you may have this problem, you may want to take some time to yourself and re-evaluate your current position in life.  It is quite possible that you’re not reaching your full potential because you are not telling yourself the truth.  I understand that telling yourself the truth can be one of the hardest things you will ever do; but once you get the hang of it, it will be one of the best things you could have ever done for yourself.  Contrary to popular beliefs, the truth is not out to hurt you.   The only intent is to help you embrace who you are and what your purpose is.

Quote of the Day: “Stick to your budget…don’t buy dreams you can’t afford!  The truth is free but lies can be very costly.” ~ Candice Loper