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Have you ever wondered why relationships that go bad can't be made whole again? I think about this often because I have been in several relationships that have went bad and I couldn't seem to understand why it couldn't be restored. I feel that these type of questions or contemplations are necessary in order to know what mistakes shouldn't be made the next time around.
When one person has left the relationship, whether it be emotional, physical, or mental; it makes it much more difficult for the other person who hasn't left to get back in. I've noticed from past experience that there is little hope left when a person has gotten to the point where they stop doing things to make you feel special, they stop spending time with you, and they stop caring about your feelings. If someone feels that you're a very important part of their existence, even if they do escape the relationship temporarily, the love that they feel for you will supersede any thoughts of leaving.
This is why I believe it's very important to understand the person you are with because it will serve you best to familiarize yourself with their level of pride, arrogance, or egotism. Depending on the person, even if they feel like they want to show you that they really do love you, if they've showed you for so long that they don't; than their pride, arrogance, and ego will prevent them from showing it. In their mind, they are so concerned about how they might look to others that they won't submit. Therefore, as a result they would much rather prefer to let something that might have the potential to be good again go for the sake of their pride. This is the person that will have regrets when it's all said and done because they won't realize what they had until it's gone. Then by the time they decide that they are ready to put their pride to the side, the other person will probably have gotten over it and moved on to someone of a less self-absorbed nature.
Quote of the Day: "Love can be a battle sometimes but if you're fighting against pride and egotism you can't possibly have the artillery and ammunition necessary to prevail." ~ Candice Loper
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