Good Morning Blogfam!
Relationships have the potential to be the best thing you've ever experienced or the worst time of your entire life. I've found that how much you give a relationship is how much you will get in return. It seems like in bad relationships there is always one person of the two who is giving it everything they have and having everything sucked out of them in return. Remaining in a bad relationship when you know you deserve better is not what drives people insane; coping with the mental anguish that comes with that is what makes people crazy. Eventually you get to a point where all you know in life is this situation that has completely consumed every part of you and you really can't picture life without the dysfunctionality.
I am sure majority of us have endured our share of not-so-great relationships. Being in them is not the hard part for a lot of people; leaving them and trying to figure out how to move forward seems to be a major struggle. I was talking to a friend of mines and this is the bit of advice I gave her: Change will always present a certain level of discomfort whether it be a change for good or bad. You can't expect for a situation to change but everything in your life to remain the same. Things are going to change and it's going to take some re-adjusting but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. On a personal level, when I finally moved on from a bad situation I was nearly stripped of everything; at the time it seemed like the worse situation that I could ever be in but in hindsight I was able to see that that needed to happen because it was the beginning to my fresh start.
CandyNote: If things get a little old and spoiled, there is always something fresh and brand new lying in wait. Don't be afraid to take the necessary steps to get it.
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