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Denial is such an ugly word! It's that word that prevents people from being in touch with who they are and where they're at in life. It's that word that forces people to believe that what is isn't. It's that word that makes people believe that what can't be will be. I say it's an ugly word because it allows people to live based on false realities just so they can make themselves feel good.
There are many levels to denial; you have people who don't want to hear anything REAL that others have to say because they have convinced themselves that their way is the only way. Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up on us and biting us in the ass. I get it! Everyone won't always be ready but let's face it, the most defining moments in life happen when you're not expecting it. However, being in denial about situations will not negate the fact that they are taking place. Which is why the sooner you realize what's real and accept it, the sooner you can embrace it if you love it or change it if you don't.
Living in denial is the equivalent of living in a constant fantasy but you have to realize that one day you will have to wake up. You have to be accountable for your circumstances because you have control of your present which ultimately will lead to your future. If you're so adamant about what you want that you're willing to be in denial to satisfy that, than you should try to find the strength to be honest with yourself to make that reality come true.
CandyNote: Don't deny your reality to affirm your fantasy.
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