Hey Hey Blogfam!!!
I want to stress how extremely important is is to be fully aware of the personality, maturity and sincerity of people that you choose to involve yourself with. If you notice early on in a relationship that someone has a tendency to be dishonest, immature, or secretive, then you can rest assure that it will get worse later on and they have things to hide for a very good reason. So many people choose to ignore the important signs and then they wait until its too late to get out without their feelings being hurt. However, you can't really blame the other person for your pain when they showed you, whether it be directly or discreetly, that they were capable of whatever they may have done to cause you to reach your breaking point.
Everything won't always be plain and simple so some things you have to figure out by analyzing the situation and behavior of the parties involved. If you meet someone and certain things don't add up it's probably because some of what they are telling you isn't true. That's when you have to decide if you want to wait for the lies to become truths, or do you want to just get out now and move on to someone who isn't going to present those same doubts. We all know that relationships aren't perfect but they also don't have to be stressful or questionable. One thing I have realized is when someone respects you and the relationship they have with you, they won't do anything to intentionally deceive you. Normally, when there is a motive involved and the relationship isn't just based on a genuine liking for one another, that's when you will be more prone to dishonesty and drama. Therefore, if someone has specific motive in mind for why they want to have a relationship with you, they will have no interest in showing you the utmost respect because their main concern is themselves and what their trying to gain.
Quote for the Day: "Don't ignore what you know is real for what you want to feel."
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