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In order for relationships to be successful it's important to start out by laying a strong foundation. It seems that a lot of people enter into relationships and their goal straight out the gate is getting to the finish line. However, in order to get to the finish line you have to put the work in and have something about you that sets you apart from the rest. It's especially important to make sure you condition yourself beforehand because if you're not strong then you'll find yourself depending on someone else for your strength.
One of the keys to a strong foundation starts with getting to know more about your mate than what's on the surface. You have to desire to know more about them, their life, their character, their goals, and even their intentions. Moreover they have to be willing to share those things; if they're not then it means they don't desire to get to know you or let you in to their world. Communication is extremely important as well because you have to be open to talking about anything and everything, no matter how sensitive the topic. Things won't always be great because that's unrealistic but if you can talk it out and come to a resolution that works best for both of you then that will keep your foundation strong.
Now I understand why the reference to a relationship is the same as a home. Your home must have a strong foundation to endure any kind of weather, protect your from outsiders who try to ruin you, provide a sense of comfort, and be a place that you enjoy spending time. That's how you want your relationship to be as well.
CandyNote: Your relationship is an investment so don't be afraid to put a lot into it because ultimately that will determine your return in the future.
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